Jemstar Entertainment

Friday, August 21, 2009

Your Disc Jockey / Entertainer & The Wedding Day Process

Brian C Idocks PhotographicsWe only get married once (one would hope)...Therefore, I cannot convey to you enough how much I appreciate the importance of good wedding reception service (See My Promise To You). The process of a wedding day, to me, has always been kind of like a medical procedure, likening your Disc Jockey / Entertainer to a surgeon; All it would take is one mishap to mar the entire operation, possibly leaving a scar that might never be forgotten. I don't ever want to be that "doc" who leaves the forceps inside the wound or "removes the wrong kidney". Believe me...With over 25 years of wedding entertainment experience and continuous training, you know I've had my share of learning situations just like any seasoned professional. I could probably write an entire book.

Brian C Idocks PhotographicsNever underestimate the value of a good wedding reception field general; Your Disc Jockey / Entertainer is the one who would be coordinating all the affair details with your entire wedding vendor team to ensure your party flows effortlessly. He/She'd be the one who will pack your dance floor, making announcements exactly when they should be made, creating the excitement without being loud and overbearing, making sure that your reception will be a great and memorable affair infused with refinement and professionalism.

It won't be the photographer, nor the caterer, not even the event coordinator who's responsibility it will be. It's all on me.

Consider this: If people end up not liking the veggie dip, or if there's a misspelling in your invitation, nobody will remember that. But if your entertainment is lacking and nobody wants to dance, or even knows what to do or where to go, and people just want to go home because of some jerk messing around with "Mr. Microphone" while playing nothing but Pink Floyd (just like "leaving those forceps in the wound"), then that's what will leave a negative mark; a memory lingering in everyone's mental hard drive. Now you've just wasted your money during one of the most important events of your life. That's the difference between an amateur and a professional...That's how important my job is.

Wednesday, August 12, 2009

Your Event Is "MORE Than Just About The Music"

Here's Why I Always Say Your Event Is...

"MORE Than Just About The Music"
Any full-time professional entertainer/DJ/MC who is worth his/her salt
will accept the following responsibilities:
  • EmCee / Entertainer
  • DJ / Creative Music Player
  • Event / Party Planner
  • Experienced Educator
  • Problem Solver / Avoider
  • Information Booth
  • Flow Conductor
  • Group Leader
  • Mediator
  • Source Of Stability
  • Appreciative Provider
  • Newest Best Friend
EmCee / Entertainer - Personally and individually works each event, interacting with the guests and encouraging participation through humor, leadership and a positive attitude. You get a proven Olympic Class performer, who knows how to produce in even the most high pressure, high stress working environments. A proven professional who doesn't panic.

"DJ": A human JUKEBOX, without thought or feeling...
"ENTERTAINER": A Therapist using Fun as a cure...

DJ / Creative Music Player - When it's time to dance, he mixes a wide variety of great dance music of over 20,000 digital tunes to invigorate and energize the audience.

Event / Party Planner - Ever heard the expression, "You can never be too thin or too rich"? Yeah, me too. But rich and thin have nothing to do with party planning, trust me. When it comes to entertaining, "you can never be TOO organized!" And you can quote me.

Experienced Educator - Responsible for implementing program curriculum using event appropriate activities. Provide help to the client and their guests in providing appropriate education in areas of the event. This includes but is not limited to, implementing activities, dining, dancing, communicating professionally with guests, and providing an entertaining environment for everyone. Responsible for planning and implementing specific activities under client's guidance and wishes. Interacts with guests to facilitate fun during all events. Attends guest’s physical and emotional needs. Interacts with guests in a positive, sensitive, professional and informative manner; Maintain and keep confidential all information on client.

Problem Solver / Avoider - After lots of meetings, training, and conversations, I've discovered that most people don’t have any idea how to solve a problem. Problems can seem pretty awful at times, but if we didn’t have problems, I would not be needed, have a job, or have an opportunity to serve you to my fullest capacity. Then, again, perhaps an experienced DJ knows how to avoid problems all together.

Information Booth - The DJ is typically the conduit for everyone's questions.

Flow Conductor - A professional DJ / MC worth his salt will be the conductor, because he could feel the audience and thus make the music and activities flow as they were flowing and move as they were moving.

Group Leader - Your 'group' is depending on me to make wise decisions and stay organized. Whatever I can do to make your event go smoothly, I will be happy to assist you. It is the responsibility of the group leader to disseminate information to all members of a multitude.

Mediator - Mediation is the process in which a neutral third party (mediator) assists the conflicting parties to come to an agreement between them. The mediator's role is to assist the negotiations by helping to establish the ground rules for the discussions and by promoting clear communication. The mediator will remain neutral and cannot make a decision for the parties. Any DJ / MC / Event Planner must be able to remain calm in the face of adversity. Of course, he or she must be personable and, as mentioned earlier, a good negotiator. I, at times, become the mouthpiece for the Bride and Groom when it comes to placement of flowers, coordinating with a band and photographer, caterer, etc. My reputation depends on it. Since most brides & grooms-to-be have neither the time or the resources to pull off such a social chore, many are turning to us "pro's" to handle it for them. A good mediator should be able to do just that, "handle" the situation.

Source Of Stability - Weddings are actually very complex emotional mazes. Even the most well-planned, beautifully orchestrated event has some sort of emotional twist or turn that a professional must be able to skillfully negotiate. The DJ is, at times, the one person who knows the most about the event. It is imperative that he/she literally be "on top" of everything, sometimes every finite detail. One never knows when pandemonium may break out or when the bride (or her mother) may call for an update on a certain portion of the wedding. Knowing all of the little intricacies on the event allows for a fair amount of control. Control is an important issue when it comes to dealing with a group of people (no matter what the occasion !). This is not to say that your DJ will rule the event with an iron fist (although this has been know to occur...), rather it means that he or she will have the capability and the confidence in knowing all of the issues and their meanings as they pertain to any particular wedding or event.

Appreciative Provider - "Thank You". No, I really mean it. "Thank You". Now, isn't that refreshing? Many experts have suggested how better to serve and satisfy customers. I see the relationship between customer and service provider is give and take, its not only a one sided relationship. When you give better service, customers appreciate you more. When you give lousy service, customers can be a pain in the neck. The flipside is also true. When you are an appreciative and considerate customer, people tend to serve you better. When you rant and fume and pound the table, people serve you grudgingly, if at all.

Your Newest Best Friend - Service so personalized and up front that not only do I become part of your planning committee, your MC, DJ, Entertainer, Educator, Problem Solver, Group Leader, Mediator and Provider, I will naturally become your "Newest Best Friend" because our relationship will hopefully continue way beyond the day I am hired for. This, in a nut-shell, is the secret to my success.

Inspiration for this article based upon published thoughts by DJ / MC / Entertainer / Seminar Guru and friend
David van Enger; Music In Motion, Sacramento, California

Wednesday, August 05, 2009

Mattie's Mother Has A Book In The Works

Jeni and Mattie StepanekJeni Stepanek, mother of late MDA National Goodwill Ambassador Mattie J.T. Stepanek, signed with Dutton publishers to write a book entitled Messenger: The Legacy of Mattie J.T. Stepanek and Heartsongs. Due to be released in November, the book will tell the story of the highs and lows, poverty and celebrity in Mattie's remarkable life. Included will be previously unpublished photos, essays, poetry and Mattie's correspondence with such influential friends as former president Jimmy Carter and Oprah Winfrey. Maya Angelou has written the book's foreword.

Saturday, August 01, 2009

Mobile Disc Jockeys Require Continued Education.

I'm not afraid to invest the time/$ to re-educate myself...or admit that I need to. I'm not going to allow myself to fall into the trap of self complacence. Plus, I want to advance my industry any way I can, so I'll contribute til I'm blue and dead.Heck, If some of Tampa's best and most prominent Mobile DJ/Entertainers are consistently taking advantage (Rob, Howard, Doug, Grant (Rob Vollmar) Hemond, Kelly...(can't write em all)...it would make sense to join them.

One has to decide if you are a "Giver" or a "Taker"...

One has to take the time to gather enough information to formulate whether their chosen vocation requires continued education, or are they doing it only out of ill-conceived convenience (no education required); Is it only about purchasing equipment and music? Is it only for weekend warriors? Can a "monkey" really do this job? Can talent be learned? IS there really more to learn in this vocation? Are there really more priorities than using others to advance yourself?

Yes...We offer ourselves for our competitors to use, thus it makes sense for them to be suspicious of our motives, but without being with us, melding with us, hanging with us on a consistent basis, these "competitors" will never EVER see the fruitful visions we see...They will only continue to perceive their fears.

The vice-versa has just as true an effect: We will never have the opportunity to truly learn what holds them back from such a wonderful benefit (if it's other than fear itself).

If one believes my supposition has no merit, then it truly demonstrates my point.